Sethe and Beloved's relationship seemed fairly codependent at first, and although Sethe apparently gets something out of it, Beloved really is the only one benefiting from the situation. Sethe repeatedly tries to justify her actions to Beloved, only to be rejected and remain unforgiven. At some point, Denver speculates that Beloved's reaction is exactly what Sethe wants, or thinks she deserves, which explains that half of the codependent relationship.
But when you look at Beloved's side of their relationship, it begins to seem more like a relationship between a parasite and its host. Beloved does nothing but demand things from Sethe: her attention, food, love, and time. She can do nothing but give and give and give to Beloved for fear of her reborn daughter leaving her again, and she's given nothing but her child's unpleasant presence in return. What's creepier is how much like an actual parasite Beloved is- she sucks the life out of Sethe by taking her food, and as her mother grows thinner and weaker, Beloved grows stronger and fatter. She most likely would have killed Sethe with all of her demands if the whole debacle in front of 124 hadn't gone down and mysteriously caused her to disappear.
I was actually thinking the exact same thing while reading this section. It reminded me of the barnacles that attach to whales and eat all the food they miss. Good post.
ReplyDeleteIt seemed to me as if Sethe and Beloved switched places. Beloved was describes as looking pregnant, and Sethe is now small and weak- like a baby.
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