They are outcasts, at different points in their life, that find each other and become of value to one another. Maria and Matthew find comfort and stability from their obscure lives when together. All of this is because they view each other in the same light, which is different from social norms.
This is seen specifically when writer and directer Hal Hartley places Maria and Nurse Paine in the diner together. Because Nurse Paine holds importance to Maria ever since the her going to the clinic, she strikes up a conversation. While talking about how she's not sure she wants to get married, she describes Matthew from a deeper perspective.
Maria: "He's dangerous but sincere."
Nurse Paine: "Sincerely dangerous."
Maria: "No, he's dangerous because he's sincere."When Maria says this she displays how she knows he is different from the rest. While others view Matthew as rage filled, bitter and resentful, Maria recognizes him as candid and real. This is exactly what they both needed, someone who will no just overlook the other, and brush them to the side. Maria admits that she is unnerved by him, but only because she has never experienced someone who authentically shows concern and responsiveness towards her. Their bond is heartfelt and trustworthy.
When watching the movie, this scene that you're talking about stuck out to me and I really liked how you expanded on how Maria's view on Matthew is different from everybody else. I also like how you talk about how they view each other is something that is unique, or different from the social norms that we believe to be the epitome of love. When in reality maybe Maria and Matthew's connection is how we really should go about our relationships in life.
ReplyDeleteI agree with your analysis about Maria's perspective on Matthew. It is super important to point out that the realness she sees in him is seen as bitterness and anger to others. Everyone in society, except Maria, are afraid of Matthew because of his sincerity. This situation reminds me of Meursault; he too was hated by society for his existentialist inspired actions.
ReplyDeleteTo point out the conversation Maria had with the nurse from the abortion clinic is really important, I initially looked over it. It makes me wonder if part of the movie is pointing out not only dead end social constructs, but also immaturity as well.
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